Three things that people pretend not to be trifling

I love to use the word "trifling" simply because it sums up exactly what most things are in just one word.  When something is trifling it is shady, a manipulative person or action, dishonest, and secretive. Here are a couple of things that I will always and forever consider to be "trifling."

Chris Brown

Honestly, you have a beautiful voice and you are nice to look at but the fact of the matter is, you beat Rihanna like she was another man on the street. A woman beater will always and forever be trifling no matter how hard they try to make a new name for themselves. Ladies avoid men like this. They will never change.

                                       When a man calls you after 1am asking to come over
When phone calls come in this late, trust me, you were not his first choice (and he knows this). What makes him trifling is him not even attempting to sugar coat this fact.

A way that this could easily be done is by throwing in a "I'm sorry I'm calling you so late but I've been at the library all night, I really just need to relax my brain. Want to go to the beach or something?"

This way, she doesn't feel cheap. Instead he decides to make it obvious that you are plan B, C, or even in some cases, D. Don't allow him to treat you this way when you don't have to.

This is also an opportunity to reevaluate the relationship and look for signs that you are The Side Chick .

When your "boyfriend" denies your relationship request on Facebook

Don't listen to him when he says that facebook is not important, because it is. 

As much as people try to fight it, they go to facebook for everything because it is the most important social network out there when it comes to your own circle of people. 

Most people will put something on twitter before they transfer it to facebook because more people are associated with facebook then twitter and they will definitely take what you say seriously. 

If he is seriously your boyfriend, then he needs to be your boyfriend everywhere; even in the social network world because that world, definitely exists.