The example that I gave was the two of you beginning as Sex Buddies but because you're just having sex, he is able to get a girlfriend which will in turn make you the side chick; by default.
Nobody is blaming you, sometimes things just happen. We understand this and are willing to help you.
Here are some signs that you should look for if you're unsure if you're the side chick.
If he is only available on the weekends or on late nights: Men love to show off and the same applies to their woman. If he is never willing to go out with you during the daytime then you may just be the side chick.
You've never met any of his friends. As mentioned before, men love to show off especially if they believe their new girl is a great catch; so if you know everything about his friend John but the way his face looks, then you may just be the side chick.
He is able to get in contact with you but you can't contact him. Everyone has a cell phone that they keep on them at all times. If the only time the two of you are able to have a conversation is when he calls, then he is not only screening your calls, he has already deemed you the side chick.
I asked my guy friend how would he describe a side chick and he used KFC as a metaphor.
He said to think of it as an order from KFC. You have the main meal (drumsticks and a thigh) but you have to have a side to complete the entire meal (biscuits).
The side dish is never as good as the main dish and it can't silence your hunger on it's own but it is something that you like and would miss if you didn't receive it.
If you realize that you may actually be the side chick, don't begin beating yourself up. Just try to keep in mind that a meal is never complete without its side.
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