Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Is Cheating Ever Acceptable?



Lets face it, everyone has cheated at least once in there life. If they say that they haven't then they probably never made it to high school.

The question is not a matter of who has cheated and who hasn't, it's all about what cheating is acceptable and which is not.

In all honesty, most of the classes that college students are required to take will be of little to no use in the future.

So does that mean that it is acceptable to cheat to get through those "useless" classes but not to cheat on the classes that you feel you will need later on in life?

Relating that back to relationships, is it okay to cheat on a female that you don't have serious feelings for but be faithful to the female that you find to be "the one?"

Of course not.

Things tend to get serious as soon as feelings are involved. If you decide to enter a relationship knowing that you don't like her then you're wrong from the beginning.

If you decide to stay with that female while having an affair with someone else then you are completely out of line and entering a territory that you do not want to mess with.

People don't appreciate their time being wasted or their feelings played with; which makes it slightly understandable for that female to begin acting, what some would call it, "crazy" all because of these games.

THIS BLOGGER thinks that there are ways to spot if your spouse is cheating. They give warning signs that show that they are possibly cheating.

I personally don't believe that a man buying you gifts automatically means that he is feeling guilty for cheating. There is always that possibility that he may just want to take care of his woman.

There are people who honestly believe that their cheating will never make it to the daylight. These people are so focused on today rather than the future that they never stop to think.

"What if when I do find "the one" and decide that it's time for me to be faithful to her, she would have heard about my cheating past and won't be able to get over it." Then what?

Do you proceed to explain to her that you were cheating on her because she "didn't count?" If that makes any sense to you then by all means,  go for it.

Just remember, people don't forget the way you treat them or others.

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